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Kelly Garashay believes the next generation is the most important thing we have right now.

Which is exactly why she can't stay quiet about this

Your kid is learning life from TikTok.

And middle school is your last window to do something about it. 

Right now your kid is still listening. Still shapeable. Still close enough to reach.

That window doesn't stay open long.

Something is happening to your kid right now and you feel it

They hit middle school and something shifted.

The kid who used to tell you everything now tells you nothing. 


The kid who used to bounce back now falls apart over a text message. 


The kid who used to come to you for answers is now going to TikTok, to their friend group, to anyone and everyone except you.


And you're watching it happen in real time — not sure whether to push in or back off — wondering if what you're seeing is normal or if something is actually wrong.


Here's what we know:

Middle school is the most critical two years of your kid's emotional development.

The habits they form right now — how they handle big feelings, how they make decisions, how they handle conflict, how they think about themselves — those habits follow them into adulthood.


The kid who doesn't learn these skills in middle school becomes the 25 year old who can't hold a job, can't maintain relationships, and doesn't know how to handle anything hard without falling apart.


That's not dramatic. That's just what happens when nobody intervenes during the window.

You're in the window right now. Let's use it.

Here's what nobody is telling you.

After middle school your kid stops listening to you about the important stuff. Not because they don't love you — but because that's developmentally what's supposed to happen. They're supposed to start looking outside the home for identity and answers.


The problem is WHERE they're looking.


TikTok. Peer groups. Instagram. YouTube. Influencers who don't know your kid and don't care about their future.


They're not going to take this from you. But they'll take it from someone else.


Someone who isn't their parent. Someone who sits across from them in a room full of other kids figuring out the same things. Someone who gives them language for what they're feeling and tools for what they're facing.


That's exactly what Life Skills Class does.

What your kid walks away with

This isn't another class. It's the conversation your kid needs to have — with someone they'll actually listen to.


They learn to handle big feelings instead of being controlled by them. No more meltdowns over friend drama. No more shutting down when things get hard. They get real tools for real emotions.


They learn to identify the thoughts that are working against them. The inner critic. The catastrophizing. The comparison spiral. They learn to recognize it and flip it.


They learn to make decisions from their values — not from peer pressure. They'll know what's okay with them and what's not — and what to do when someone pushes against that.


They learn that resilience is a skill — not a personality trait. Hard things don't have to break them. They just need to know how to move through them.


They learn who they actually are — before the world tells them who to be. This is the foundation everything else is built on. Identity first. Everything else follows.

Learn More About Kelly

I've been doing this for 25 years

I'm Kelly Garashay — Certified Life Coach, youth mentor...

...and the person who sits across from your kid and helps them figure out what they've been trying to say.


I'm not a therapist. I'm not their teacher. I'm not their parent.

I'm the person they'll actually talk to.


I've spent over two decades watching kids hit middle school and either get the tools they need or spend the next decade recovering from not having them. I know what the window looks like when it's open. And I know what it costs when it closes without anyone stepping in.

I built Life Skills Class because your kid deserves someone in their corner right now — someone who takes them seriously, gives them real tools, and helps them figure out who they are before the world decides for them.


"This world needs them to be fully alive and well-rounded people in adulthood. I want to intervene now so they become adults with mindsets that set them up for a lifetime of wisdom and fulfillment." — Kelly

Here's how simple this is

Step 1: Find the right class

Step 1: Find the right class

Step 1: Find the right class

students in a class with Kelly at the white board teaching life skills class

Classes are available in multiple formats so you can find what works for your family.

  • Online via Zoom — starting August 2026
  • In person in Scottsdale — starting September 2026
  • In person in Prescott — starting October 2026 (Park Collective PV)


New classes are added regularly. If you don't see a time that works — get on the waitlist and Kelly will reach out the moment something opens up.

Step 2: Enroll your student

Step 1: Find the right class

Step 1: Find the right class

Young girl who is sitting on her front porch facing the street. She's seemingly bored and ready for

Small groups. 

Real conversation. 

Six weeks. 


Ask about ESA funds. 


Private 1:1 available anytime on your schedule. Inquire here.

Step 3: Watch what happens

Step 1: Find the right class

Step 3: Watch what happens

young girls searching for new perspective with Rorshach images in Life Skills Class with coach Kelly

Your kid gets tools.

You get your kid back. 

And somewhere in the middle of all of it — you might realize you want some of this work for yourself too.


(More on that last part in a minute.)


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What happens if you wait?

The window closes.


Not dramatically. Not with a big moment you can point to. Just gradually — the way influence always slips away. One semester they're still reachable. The next they're not. And by the time you realize the window closed you're already in recovery mode instead of prevention mode.


The 25 year old who can't launch didn't get there overnight.


They got there because nobody gave them the tools during the window.


You're in the window right now.

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One more thing

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Fridays 11:00 — 11:30am MST /AZ

The moms who enroll their kids in Life Skills Class almost always have the same moment about four weeks in.


They're watching their kid come home different — calmer, clearer, more themselves — and they think:


"I never got any of this. Nobody taught me how to handle my big feelings. Nobody helped me figure out who I was before the world told me who to be. I'm still figuring this out."


If that's you — I have something for you too.


Every Friday at 11am I host a free 30 minute coaching call for Christian wives and moms. Real topics. Real coaching. Zero fluff.


It's called the Friday Clarity Zoom and it might be the first 30 minutes you've spent on yourself in a long time.


You don't have to be ready. You just have to be curious.

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What parents are saying

Just the beginning

Remembering herself

Remembering herself

"For the record, those "rules" about technology from our house he brought up in class? Those aren't even our rules. 😅 What's interesting is now I know what he's been thinking and what he's adopting for himself. I didn't know he was thinking about this stuff." — Kelly

Remembering herself

Remembering herself

Remembering herself

"I am so glad you're offering this class and that my daughter is learning this content." — Brenda

New to town

Remembering herself

New to town

"Will you be teaching this class again next year? I think it was so good for our group and I want my daughter to come." — Jennifer

The window is open right now

Your kid is in the most important two years of their emotional development. You have a chance to give them tools that will follow them for the rest of their life.

Don't wait until middle school is over to wish you'd done something during it.


Find yourself before you lose them.

Find a class

Yes to your kids. Yes to yourself. Yes to your future.

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Kelly Garashay | Clarity Coach

© Kelly Garashay | The Clarity Coach— Faith-based. Freedom-focused. Family-first. 

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